Grammy Award-winning singer Tems has responded decisively to body-shaming remarks that surfaced online following her recent performance at the Roots Picnic in Philadelphia, USA.
After sharing highlights from her set on social media, a user posted a derogatory comment stating, “Real one knows she just have big laps not actual ass.” The remark sparked a strong reaction from the Nigerian star, who took to X (formerly Twitter) to address the ongoing scrutiny over her appearance.
“Okay, seven years in. It’s time to pack it up. I never thought I’d need to say it, but you are all weird,” she wrote. “‘It’s small, it’s flat, it’s fat.’ Dog, it’s mine. ‘Show us your bumbum’ — lol, so me too I will turn and say ‘see’? Nah, show me yours first? See how that feels?”
Tems continued, “It’s just a body. I will add and lose weight. I never once hid my body; I just didn’t feel the need to prove or disprove anyone. The more you don’t like my body, the better for me, actually. But it’s enough now. Move on from my bum.”
Her response firmly reasserts her ownership over her body and challenges the persistent culture of unsolicited commentary on women’s appearances. With her statement, Tems reinforces the importance of self-acceptance and respect for personal boundaries in the public sphere.
Tems’ manager, Muyiwa Awoniyi, also voiced support, writing on X: “Said it before and I’ll say it again. Insulting me? I’m fine with. But if you insult Temi, Stanley or Lekan? We will have a problem. ‘Till next time, bye for now.”
This is not the first time Tems has been targeted for her physical appearance. In February 2023, shortly after winning her first Grammy for Best Melodic Rap Performance, she faced criticism regarding her stage presence and choice of attire. Despite often opting for modest fashion to center attention on her music, commentary about her body has remained a frequent distraction.
By addressing the issue directly and unapologetically, Tems continues to advocate for body positivity, mental well-being, and the right of public figures to exist without intrusive scrutiny.
