Being a good and nice gentleman with a proper home training doesn’t work most of the time especially in a public university.
It comes with a lot of challenges whereby you find it really hard to be with a friend that has the same “good behavior” like you.
When I was young,I didn’t have much opportunity to mix with people due to the environment I live in. It was tough for me because I wasn’t lucky to have a sincere partner to call a friend because everyone I chose as a friend then had to be rejected by my parents due to some “improper upbringing” they have and I didn’t even know how my parents were good enough to judge not until I grew up and I was called a “mummy’s boy” or “Omo get inside”.
I found out that I lived in the streets were they are no good people except bad influences. It was really hard for me to choose a friend and it really affects me in the university because everywhere I turn to,there’s always a bad person either there’s a “yahoo boy” or there’s a “hookup girl” and the few good people I tried to be friends with feels like weak ones because it’s a public university where the “mummy’s boy”and the “Omo get inside” individuals that have good manners always feel like the weak ones and they feel like a proper “get inside” really because they haven’t gotten much exposure to the streets while they were growing up.
I feel like I’m lucky because I had to break the rules my parents gave me to mix with the street and it really helped me because I understand really well both the good and the bad sides of how to live my life and it actually brought a balance in my relationship with everyone I meet.
